[libc++] Rework compressed pair constructors.

This patch de-duplicates most compressed pair constructors
to use the same code in C++11 and C++03.

Part of doing that is deleting the "__second_tag()" and replacing
it with a "__value_init_tag()" which has the same effect, but
allows for the removal of the special "one-arg" first element
constructor.

This patch is intended to have no semantic change.