Sync the __builtin_expects for our 3 quadratically probed hash table implementations.

This assumes that
  a) finding the bucket containing the value is LIKELY
  b) finding an empty bucket is LIKELY
  c) growing the table is UNLIKELY

I also switched the a) and b) cases for SmallPtrSet as we seem to use
the set mostly more for insertion than for checking existence.

In a simple benchmark consisting of 2^21 insertions of 2^20 unique
pointers into a DenseMap or SmallPtrSet a few percent speedup on average,
but nothing statistically significant.

llvm-svn: 230232