Make VAARG promotion work correctly with large funky

sized integers like i129, and also reduce the number
of assumptions made about how vaarg is implemented.
This still doesn't work correctly for small integers
like (eg) i1 on x86, since x86 passes each of them
(essentially an i8) in a 4 byte stack slot, so the
pointer needs to be advanced by 4 bytes not by 1 byte
as now.  But this is no longer a LegalizeTypes problem
(it was also wrong in LT before): it is a bug in the
operation expansion in LegalizeDAG: now LegalizeTypes
turns an i1 vaarg into an i8 vaarg which would work
fine if only the i8 vaarg was turned into correct code
later.

llvm-svn: 58635