Fold the useful features of alist and alist_node into ilist, and

a new ilist_node class, and remove them. Unlike alist_node,
ilist_node doesn't attempt to manage storage itself, so it avoids
the associated problems, including being opaque in gdb.

Adjust the Recycler class so that it doesn't depend on alist_node.
Also, change it to use explicit Size and Align parameters, allowing
it to work when the largest-sized node doesn't have the greatest
alignment requirement.

Change MachineInstr's MachineMemOperand list from a pool-backed
alist to a std::list for now.

llvm-svn: 54146