cmake: Add INSTALL_WITH_TOOLCHAIN option to add_*_library macros

Summary:
This will simplify the macros by allowing us to remove the hard-coded
list of libraries that should be installed when
LLVM_INSTALL_TOOLCHAIN_ONLY is enabled.

Reviewers: beanz, smeenai

Reviewed By: beanz

Subscribers: aheejin, mehdi_amini, mgorny, steven_wu, dexonsmith, cfe-commits, llvm-commits

Tags: #clang, #llvm

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D64580

llvm-svn: 365902