Add tests for *DenesMap for both key and value types' construction and

destruction and fix a bug in SmallDenseMap they caught.

This is kind of a poor-man's version of the testing that just adds the
addresses to a set on construction and removes them on destruction. We
check that double construction and double destruction don't occur.
Amusingly enough, this is enough to catch a lot of SmallDenseMap issues
because we spend a lot of time with fixed stable addresses in the inline
buffer.

The SmallDenseMap bug fix included makes grow() not double-destroy in
some cases. It also fixes a FIXME there, the code was pretty crappy. We
now don't have any wasted initialization, but we do move the entries in
inline bucket array an extra time. It's probably a better tradeoff, and
is much easier to get correct.

llvm-svn: 158639