[mlir] Add MemRef filter to affine data copy optimization

This patch extends affine data copy optimization utility with an
optional memref filter argument. When the memref filter is used, data
copy optimization will only generate copies for such a memref.

Note: this patch is just porting the memref filter feature from Uday's
'hop' branch: https://github.com/bondhugula/llvm-project/tree/hop.

Reviewed By: bondhugula

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D74342