[TargetLowering] SimplifyDemandedBits - call SimplifyMultipleUseDemandedBits...

[TargetLowering] SimplifyDemandedBits - call SimplifyMultipleUseDemandedBits for ISD::EXTRACT_VECTOR_ELT (REAPPLIED)

This patch attempts to peek through vectors based on the demanded bits/elt of a particular ISD::EXTRACT_VECTOR_ELT node, allowing us to avoid dependencies on ops that have no impact on the extract.

In particular this helps remove some unnecessary scalar->vector->scalar patterns.

The wasm shift patterns are annoying - @tlively has indicated that the wasm vector shift codegen are to be refactored in the near-term and isn't considered a major issue.

Reapplied after reversion at rL368660 due to PR42982 which was fixed at rGca7fdd41bda0.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D65887