[lld-macho] De-templatize mach_header operations

@thakis pointed out that `mach_header` and `mach_header_64`
actually have the same set of (used) fields, with the 64-bit version
having extra padding. So we can access the fields we need using the
single `mach_header` type instead of using templates to switch between
the two.

I also spotted a potential issue where hasObjCSection tries to parse a
file w/o checking if it does indeed match the target arch... As such,
I've added a quick magic number check to ensure we don't access invalid
memory during `findCommand()`.

Addresses PR50180.

Reviewed By: #lld-macho, thakis

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D101724