[WebAssembly] "atomics" feature requires shared memory

Summary:
Makes it a linker error if the "atomics" feature is used but the user
does not opt in to shared memory or if "atomics" is disallowed but the
user does opt in to shared memory. Also check that an appropriate max
memory size is supplied if shared memory is used.

Reviewers: sbc100, aheejin

Subscribers: dschuff, jgravelle-google, sunfish, jfb, llvm-commits

Tags: #llvm

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D59281

llvm-svn: 357310