[DAG] Enforce stricter NodeId invariant during Instruction selection

Instruction Selection makes use of the topological ordering of nodes
by node id (a node's operands have smaller node id than it) when doing
cycle detection.  During selection we may violate this property as a
selection of multiple nodes may induce a use dependence (and thus a
node id restriction) between two unrelated nodes. If a selected node
has an unselected successor this may allow us to miss a cycle in
detection an invalid selection.

This patch fixes this by marking all unselected successors of a
selected node have negated node id.  We avoid pruning on such negative
ids but still can reconstruct the original id for pruning.

In-tree targets have been updated to replace DAG-level replacements
with ISel-level ones which enforce this property.

This preemptively fixes PR36312 before triggering commit r324359 relands

Reviewers: craig.topper, bogner, jyknight

Subscribers: arsenm, nhaehnle, javed.absar, llvm-commits, hiraditya

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D43198

llvm-svn: 327170