[LoopPassManager] Assert that MemorySSA is preserved if used

Currently it's possible to silently use a loop pass that does not
preserve MemorySSA in a loop-mssa pass manager, as we don't
statically know which loop passes preserve MemorySSA (as was the
case with the legacy pass manager).

However, we can at least add a check after the fact that if
MemorySSA is used, then it should also have been preserved.
Hopefully this will reduce confusion as seen in
https://bugs.llvm.org/show_bug.cgi?id=51020.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D108399