[TTI] Remove default condition type and predicate arguments from getCmpSelInstrCost

We need to be better at exposing the comparison predicate to getCmpSelInstrCost calls as some targets (e.g. X86 SSE) have very different costs for different comparisons (PR48337), and we can't always rely on the optional Instruction argument.

This initial commit requires explicit condition type and predicate arguments. The next step will be to review a lot of the existing getCmpSelInstrCost calls which have used BAD_ICMP_PREDICATE even when the predicate is known.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D111024