[ARM] Fix infinite loop when lowering STRICT_FP_EXTEND

If the target has FP64 but not FP16 then we have custom lowering for FP_EXTEND
and STRICT_FP_EXTEND with type f64. However if the extend is from f32 to f64 the
current implementation will cause in infinite loop for STRICT_FP_EXTEND due to
emitting a merge_values of the original node which after replacement becomes a
merge_values of itself.

Fix this by not doing anything for f32 to f64 extend when we have FP64, though
for STRICT_FP_EXTEND we have to do the strict-to-nonstrict mutation as that
doesn't happen automatically for opcodes with custom lowering.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D74559