[ASanStableABI][Driver] Stop linking to asan dylib when stable abi is enabled

This patch enables linking of the static archive when fsanitize-stable-abi is set and stops linking to the asan dylib.

To link to the Address Sanitizer stable abi static library use "-fsanitize=address -fsanitize-stable-abi"

Updates a test with these flags.

rdar://112480890

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D156718