[VPlan] Record IR flags on VPWidenRecipe directly (NFC).

This patch introduces a VPRecipeWithIRFlags class to record various IR
flags for a recipe. This allows de-coupling of IR flags from the
underlying instructions. The main benefit is that it allows dropping of
IR flags from recipes directly, without the need to go through
State::MayGeneratePoisonRecipes. The plan is to remove
MayGeneratePoisonRecipes once all relevant recipes are transitioned.

It also allows dropping IR flags during VPlan-to-VPlan transforms, which
will be used in a follow-up patch to implement truncateToMinimalBitwidths
as VPlan-to-VPlan transform.

Reviewed By: Ayal

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D149079