tsan: avoid false positives related to epoll

An application can use the mere fact of epoll_wait returning an fd
as synchronization with the write on the fd that triggered the notification.
This pattern come up in an internal networking server (b/229276331).

If an fd is added to epoll, setup a link from the fd to the epoll fd
and use it for synchronization as well.

Reviewed By: melver

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D124518