[AArch64] Improve cost of umull from known bits

As in D140287, we can now generate umull from mul(zext(x), y) in cases where we
know that the top bits of y are zero. This teaches that to the cost model,
adjusting how isWideningInstruction detects mul operations that can extend both
operands. This helps for constants and other cases where the operands of the
mul are known to be extended, but not directly extends.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D154936