[X86][AVX] combineX86ShuffleChain - combine binary shuffles to X86ISD::VPERM2X128

For pre-AVX512 targets, combine binary shuffles to X86ISD::VPERM2X128 if possible. This mainly helps optimize the blend(extract_subvector(x,1),y) pattern.

At some point soon we're going to have make a decision about when to combine AVX512 shuffles more aggressively - we bail out if there is any change in element size (to protect predicate mask merging) which means we miss out on a lot of optimizations.