[X86] Add back the -x86-experimental-vector-widening-legalization comand line...

[X86] Add back the -x86-experimental-vector-widening-legalization comand line flag and all associated code, but leave it enabled by default

Google is reporting performance issues with the new default behavior
and have asked for a way to switch back to the old behavior while we
investigate and make fixes.

I've restored all of the code that had since been removed and added
additional checks of the command flag onto code paths that are
not otherwise guarded by a check of getTypeAction.

I've also modified the cost model tables to hopefully get us back
to the previous costs.

Hopefully we won't need to support this for very long since we
have no test coverage of the old behavior so we can very easily
break it.

llvm-svn: 369332