[X86] Prevent lowerVectorShuffleByMerging128BitLanes from creating cycles

Due to some splat handling code in getVectorShuffle, its possible for NewV1/NewV2 to have their mask modified from what is requested. This can lead to cycles being created in the DAG.

This patch examines the returned mask and makes sure its different. Long term we may need to look closer at that splat code in getVectorShuffle, or add more splat awareness to getVectorShuffle.

Fixes PR38639

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D50981

llvm-svn: 340214