[libc++] Make __shared_weak_count vtable consistent across all build configurations

This patch ensures that __shared_weak_count provides a consistent vtable
regardless of if RTTI is enabled or if we are targeting a static or shared
libc++ build.

This patch is technically ABI breaking, but only for a very specific
configuration that no vendor should be shipping.

Note that _LIBCPP_BUILD_STATIC is not normally defined when building
libc++.a, but instead it must be manually provided by the user or the
__config_site.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D32838