SourceManager: Fix an SLocEntry memory regression introduced with FileEntryRef

4dc5573a added `FileEntryRef` in order to
help enable sharing of a `FileManager` between `CompilerInstance`s.

It also added a `StringRef` with the filename on `FileInfo`. This
doubled `sizeof(FileInfo)`, bloating `sizeof(SLocEntry)`, of which we
have one for each (loaded and unloaded) file and macro expansion. This
causes a memory regression in modules builds.

Move the filename down into the `ContentCache`, which is a side data
structure for `FileInfo` that does not impact `sizeof(SLocEntry)`. Once
`FileEntryRef` is used for `ContentCache::OrigEntry` this can go away.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D89580
Radar-Id: rdar://59908826