[InstCombine] reduce xor-of-or's bitwise logic (PR46955); 2nd try

The 1st try at this (rG2265d01f2a5b) exposed what looks like
unspecified behavior in C/C++ resulting in test variations.

The arguments to BinaryOperator::CreateAnd() were both IRBuilder
function calls, and the order in which they execute determines
the order of the new instructions in the IR. But the order of
function arg evaluation is not fixed by the rules of C/C++, so
depending on compiler config, the test would fail because the
test expected a single fixed ordering of instructions.

Original commit message:
I tried to use m_Deferred() on this, but didn't find
a clean way to do that.

http://bugs.llvm.org/PR46955

https://alive2.llvm.org/ce/z/2h6QTq