[globalisel][legalizerinfo] Add support for legalization based on the MachineMemOperand

Summary:
Currently only the memory size is supported but others can be added as
needed.

narrowScalar for G_LOAD and G_STORE now correctly update the
MachineMemOperand and will refuse to legalize atomics since those need more
careful expansions to maintain atomicity.

Reviewers: ab, aditya_nandakumar, bogner, rtereshin, aemerson, javed.absar

Reviewed By: aemerson

Subscribers: aemerson, rovka, kristof.beyls, javed.absar, llvm-commits

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D45466

llvm-svn: 331071