Add link-time detection of LLVM_ABI_BREAKING_CHECKS mismatch

The macro LLVM_ENABLE_ABI_BREAKING_CHECKS is moved to a new header
abi-breaking.h, from llvm-config.h. Only headers that are using the
macro are including this new header.

LLVM will define a symbol, either EnableABIBreakingChecks or
DisableABIBreakingChecks depending on the configuration setting for
LLVM_ABI_BREAKING_CHECKS.

The abi-breaking.h header will add weak references to these symbols in
every clients that includes this header. This should ensure that
a mismatch triggers a link failure (or a load time failure for DSO).

On MSVC, the pragma "detect_mismatch" is used instead.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D26876

llvm-svn: 288082