[clang] Rework dontcall attributes

To avoid using the AST when emitting diagnostics, split the "dontcall"
attribute into "dontcall-warn" and "dontcall-error", and also add the
frontend attribute value as the LLVM attribute value. This gives us all
the information to report diagnostics we need from within the IR (aside
from access to the original source).

One downside is we directly use LLVM's demangler rather than using the
existing Clang diagnostic pretty printing of symbols.

Reviewed By: nickdesaulniers

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D110364