[MC] [Win64EH] Check that the SEH unwind opcodes match the actual instructions

It's a fairly common issue that the generating code incorrectly marks
instructions as narrow or wide; check that the instruction lengths
add up to the expected value, and error out if it doesn't. This allows
catching code generation bugs.

Also check that prologs and epilogs are properly terminated, to
catch other code generation issues.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D125647