[IVUsers] Check for preheader instead of loop simplify form

IVUsers currently makes sure that all loops dominating a user are
in loop simplify form, because SCEVExpander needs a preheader to
insert into. However, loop simplify form requires much more than
that. In particular, it requires dedicated exits, which means that
exits need to be found and walked. For large functions with many
nested loops, this can result in pathological compile-time explosion.

Fix this by only checking the property we're actually interested in,
which is incidentally cheap to check.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D111493