[mlir][spirv] Use spv.vce in spv.module and wire up (de)serialization

This commits changes the definition of spv.module to use the #spv.vce
attribute for specifying (version, capabilities, extensions) triple
so that we can have better API and custom assembly form. Since now
we have proper modelling of the triple, (de)serialization is wired up
to use them.

With the new UpdateVCEPass, we don't need to manually specify the
required extensions and capabilities anymore when creating a spv.module.
One just need to call UpdateVCEPass before serialization to get the
needed version/extensions/capabilities.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D75872