Rename cxx-benchmark-unittests target and convert to LIT.

This patch renames the cxx-benchmark-unittests to check-cxx-benchmarks
and converts the target to use LIT in order to make the tests run faster
and provide better output.

In particular this runs each benchmark in a suite one by one, allowing
more parallelism while ensuring output isn't garbage with multiple threads.

Additionally, it adds the CMake flag '-DLIBCXX_BENCHMARK_TEST_ARGS=<list>'
to specify what options are passed when running the benchmarks.

llvm-svn: 346888