Reland "[mac/lld] Implement -why_load".

The problem was that `sym` became replaced in the call
to make<ObjFile> and referring to it afer that read memory that now
stored a different kind of symbol (a Defined instead of a LazySymbol).
Since this happens only once per archive, just copy the symbol to the
stack before make<ObjFile> and read the copy instead.

Originally reviewed at https://reviews.llvm.org/D92496