GlobalISel: Fix lowerSelect handling of boolean high bits

This was making several invalid assumptions about the incoming
select. First, it was assuming the incoming condition was either s1 or
already sign extended, not accounting for different boolean high bits
behavior between scalar and vector conditions. We only had a vector
boolean due to the intermediate step vector select, which is now
avoided.

Second, it was assuming it can use the result vector type as a boolean
mask. These types don't have anything to do with other, and only makes
sense in the context of the expansion to bit operations. Since these
logically are part of the same lowering, do the complete expansion in
a single step.

The added select_v4s1_s1 test does fail to legalize, since it seems
AArch64's vector legalization support is pretty incomplete.