[clang-format] Correctly annotate */&/&& in operator function calls

Reverts 4986f3f2 (but keeps its unit tests) and fixes #49973
differently.

Also fixes bugs that incorrectly annotate the operator keyword as
TT_FunctionDeclarationName in function calls and as TT_Unknown in function
declarations and definitions.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D154184