[clang] Introduce diagnostics suppression mappings (#112517)

This implements

https://discourse.llvm.org/t/rfc-add-support-for-controlling-diagnostics-severities-at-file-level-granularity-through-command-line/81292.

Users now can suppress warnings for certain headers by providing a
mapping with globs, a sample file looks like:
```
[unused]
src:*
src:*clang/*=emit
```

This will suppress warnings from `-Wunused` group in all files that
aren't under `clang/` directory. This mapping file can be passed to
clang via `--warning-suppression-mappings=foo.txt`.

At a high level, mapping file is stored in DiagnosticOptions and then
processed with rest of the warning flags when creating a
DiagnosticsEngine. This is a functor that uses SpecialCaseLists
underneath to match against globs coming from the mappings file.

This implies processing warning options now performs IO, relevant
interfaces are updated to take in a VFS, falling back to RealFileSystem
when one is not available.