[mlir][gpu] Add a symbol table field to TargetOptions and adjust GpuModuleToBinary (#65797)

This patch adds the option of building an optional symbol table for the
top operation in the `gpu-module-to-binary` pass. The table is not
created by default as most targets don't need it; instead, it is lazily
built. The table is passed through a callback in `TargetOptions`.

This patch is required to integrate #65539 .