[lld-macho] Add --ignore-auto-link-option

This provides a workaround for a small difference in ld64 behavior where
ld64 ignores invalid LC_LINKER_OPTIONS unless the link fails. Instead of
fully adopting that behavior, this provides an escape hatch by allowing
users to specify `--ignore-auto-link-option` passing the invalid library
or framework name

Fixes https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/issues/56939

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D135530