Fix LWG issue 2469 - Use piecewise construction in map::operator[].

map's allocator may only be used to construct objects of 'value_type',
or in this case 'pair<const Key, Value>'. In order to respect this requirement
in operator[], which requires default constructing the 'mapped_type', we have
to use pair's piecewise constructor with '(tuple<Kep>, tuple<>)'.

Unfortunately we still need to provide a fallback implementation for C++03
since we don't have <tuple>. Even worse this fallback is the last remaining
user of '__hash_map_node_destructor' and '__construct_node_with_key'.

This patch also switches try_emplace over to __tree.__emplace_unique_key_args.

llvm-svn: 264989