[ARM] Simplify VMOVRRD from extracts of buildvectors

Under the softfp calling convention, we are often left with
VMOVRRD(extract(bitcast(build_vector(a, b, c, d)))) for the return value
of the function. These can be simplified to a,b or c,d directly,
depending on the value of the extract.

Big endian is a little different because the bitcast switches the lanes
around, meaning we end up with b,a or d,c.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D94989