[InstSimplify] Fix addo/subo undef folds (PR42209)

Fix folds of addo and subo with an undef operand to be:

`@llvm.{u,s}{add,sub}.with.overflow` all fold to `{ undef, false }`,
 as per LLVM undef rules.
Same for commuted variants.

Based on the original version of the patch by @nikic.

Fixes [[ https://bugs.llvm.org/show_bug.cgi?id=42209 | PR42209 ]]

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D63065

llvm-svn: 363522