Generalize ownership/passing semantics to allow dsymutil to own abbreviations via unique_ptr

While still allowing CodeGen/AsmPrinter in llvm to own them using a bump
ptr allocator. (might be nice to replace the pointers there with
something that at least automatically calls their dtors, if that's
necessary/useful, rather than having it done explicitly (I think a typed
BumpPtrAllocator already does this, or maybe a unique_ptr with a custom
deleter, etc))

llvm-svn: 253409