[OpenMP][OMPIRBuilder] Rename IsEmbedded and IsTargetCodegen flags

This patch renames the `OpenMPIRBuilderConfig` flags to reduce confusion over
their meaning. `IsTargetCodegen` becomes `IsGPU`, whereas `IsEmbedded` becomes
`IsTargetDevice`. The `-fopenmp-is-device` compiler option is also renamed to
`-fopenmp-is-target-device` and the `omp.is_device` MLIR attribute is renamed
to `omp.is_target_device`. Getters and setters of all these renamed properties
are also updated accordingly. Many unit tests have been updated to use the new
names, but an alias for the `-fopenmp-is-device` option is created so that
external programs do not stop working after the name change.

`IsGPU` is set when the target triple is AMDGCN or NVIDIA PTX, and it is only
valid if `IsTargetDevice` is specified as well. `IsTargetDevice` is set by the
`-fopenmp-is-target-device` compiler frontend option, which is only added to
the OpenMP device invocation for offloading-enabled programs.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D154591