[ELF] Respect orders of symbol assignments and DEFINED (#65866)

Fix #64600: the currently implementation is minimal (see
https://reviews.llvm.org/D83758), and an assignment like
`__TEXT_REGION_ORIGIN__ = DEFINED(__TEXT_REGION_ORIGIN__) ? __TEXT_REGION_ORIGIN__ : 0;`
(used by avr-ld[1]) leads to a value of zero (default value in `declareSymbol`),
which is unexpected.

Assign orders to symbol assignments and references so that
for a script-defined symbol, the `DEFINED` results match users'
expectation. I am unclear about GNU ld's exact behavior, but this hopefully
matches its behavior in the majority of cases.

[1]: https://sourceware.org/git/?p=binutils-gdb.git;a=blob;f=ld/scripttempl/avr.sc