[lld-macho] Implement -noall_load

This flag is the default, so in ld64 it is not implemented, but it can
be useful to negate previous -all_load arguments. Specifically if your
build system has some global linker flags, that you may want to negate
for specific links. We use something like this today to make sure some
C++ symbols are automatically discovered for all links, which passing
-all_load hides.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D117629