[MLIR][transform][python] add sugared python abstractions for transform dialect (#75073)

This adds Python abstractions for the different handle types of the
transform dialect

The abstractions allow for straightforward chaining of transforms by
calling their member functions.
As an initial PR for this infrastructure, only a single transform is
included: `transform.structured.match`.
With a future `tile` transform abstraction an example of the usage is: 
```Python
def script(module: OpHandle):
    module.match_ops(MatchInterfaceEnum.TilingInterface).tile(tile_sizes=[32,32])
```
to generate the following IR:
```mlir
%0 = transform.structured.match interface{TilingInterface} in %arg0
%tiled_op, %loops = transform.structured.tile_using_for %0 [32, 32]
```

These abstractions are intended to enhance the usability and flexibility
of the transform dialect by providing an accessible interface that
allows for easy assembly of complex transformation chains.