[x86] make select lowering using SBB hack more flexible

select (X != 0), -1, Y --> 0 - X; or (sbb), Y
select (X != 0), Y, -1 --> X - 1; or (sbb), Y

We already had these x86 carry-flag transforms, but one was over-specified to
handle a "0" select arm only. That's just a special-case of the more general
pattern (the 'or' will be deleted if Y is zero).

This is part of solving #53006, but it misses that example because some other
combine has already converted that exact pattern into math ops.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D116765