[TargetLowering] improve the default expansion of uaddsat/usubsat

This is a subset of what was proposed in:
D59006
...and may overlap with test changes from:
D59174
...but it seems like a good general optimization to turn selects
into bitwise-logic when possible because we never know exactly
what can happen at this stage of DAG combining depending on how
the target has defined things.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D59066

llvm-svn: 356332