[mlir][bufferization] Remove allow-return-allocs and create-deallocs pass...

[mlir][bufferization] Remove allow-return-allocs and create-deallocs pass options, remove bufferization.escape attribute (#66619)

This commit removes the deallocation capabilities of
one-shot-bufferization. One-shot-bufferization should never deallocate
any memrefs as this should be entirely handled by the
ownership-based-buffer-deallocation pass going forward. This means the
`allow-return-allocs` pass option will default to true now,
`create-deallocs` defaults to false and they, as well as the escape
attribute indicating whether a memref escapes the current region, will
be removed. A new `allow-return-allocs-from-loops` option is added as a
temporary workaround for some bufferization limitations.