[flang][driver] Add support for `-mmlir`

The semantics of `-mmlir` are identical to `-mllvm`. The only notable
difference is that `-mmlir` options should be forwarded to MLIR rather
than LLVM.

Note that MLIR llvm::cl options are lazily constructed on demand (see
the definition of options in PassManagerOptions.cpp). This means that:
  * MLIR global options are only visible when explicitly initialised and
    displayed only when using `-mmlir --help`,
  * Flang and LLVM global options are always visible and displayed when
    using either `-mllvm -help` or `-mmlir --help`.

In other words, `-mmlir --help` is a superset of `-mllvm --help`. This is not
ideal, but we'd need to refactor all option definitions in Flang and
LLVM to improve this. I suggesting leaving this for later.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D123297