[lld][WebAssembly] Fix malformed output with -pie + --shared-memory

The conditional guarding createInitMemoryFunction was incorrect and
didn't match that guarding the creation of the associated symbol.

Rather that reproduce the same conditions in multiple places we can
simply use the presence of the associated symbol.

Also, add an assertion that would have caught this bug.

Also, add a new test for this flag combination.

This is part of an ongoing effort to enable dynamic linking with
threads in emscripten.

See https://github.com/emscripten-core/emscripten/issues/3494

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D92520